1999 – A professional headshot of me taken by a photographer in Tribecca when my wife and I were living in New York City. I took my glasses off for this shot because the lenses, as I recall, didn’t have an anti-reflective coating, and because the photographer was going for more of an intense lawyerly look. I have on a Ralph Lauren navy blue wool suit with gray chalk stripes that I bought for $50.00 at a thrift store in Asheville, NC. It was memorable because, though a great suit, it was one of the most expensive thrift purchases I’ve ever made, but I still wear it occasionally. I’m not sure where I got the button down shirt and foulard tie. Both were likely thrifted.
1999 – My beautiful wife and I on our wedding day outside her aunt and uncle’s house. They hosted the reception. I have on a charcoal gray suit with suspenders, a paisley tie with navy background and a white button down shirt.
1999 – Outside the small Episcopal chapel where our wedding ceremony was held in Greenville, SC. I think my wife looks lovely here! Opting for simplicity, we kept the invitation list to 50 and had no groom’s men or bride’s maids, just a priest, a crucifer and musicians. We designed and printed our wedding announcement and program for the ceremony and asked that there be no gifts (though this was largely ignored). We tried!
The coup in the do-it-yourself approach was my wife’s wedding dress. While we were in New York, she selected her own material from a shop in the Garment District and took it to a boutique in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. She asked them to design a party dress, which cut the cost down considerably. The cap toe dress shoes I’m wearing with the charcoal gray suit were polished, but cracked, and had a small hole on one of the soles – likely visible to our guests when we knelt at the altar.
We’ve been happily married for 13 years. As we look back on the wedding, we’re glad that we kept it a simple ceremony. The organist was wonderful. There were solos from a friend who was a professional opera singer. A string quartet of classically trained musicians, my wife’s friends since childhood, played for us. It couldn’t have been a more prefect day.
1998 – My wife-to-be and I on the balcony of a friend’s apartment in New York City. You can’t tell here, but we were on the 44th floor high above 9th Avenue near Times Square. We had been invited to a Christmas party. I have on a wool houndstooth sport coat, a sage turtleneck and a pair of khaki pants. My wife is wearing a vintage (60s) green and black houndstooth jacket whose design was very Sherlock Holmes. That was a thrift find at Anne Merchant’s Time Warp shop (now out of buisness) in Greenville, SC. I still have that jacket, too.
1993 – With friends in Upperville, VA after the fall Piedmont Hunt Point-To-Point races. I’m wearing a light windbreaker, a classic Norwegian Fisherman’s Sweater from L.L. Bean, a pair of rumpled khakis – rumpled being their usual state – and Bean Boots. Among my friends is a sampling of Barbour, Burberry and Brooks Brothers.